The Dumb American BBQ

YAHH it was a BBQ, but that is all it was. It doesn’t even feel worthy of writing about it. But, by going deeper, it was nice to just chill, eat food, and see people in their normal state. I need to get out of my head to not just focus on being bored. Trying to see the greener pastures. Not so doom and glum. If you get stuck in that mindset, you can be there your whole life. I want to challenge that.  When I find myself in this place, I need to step out of that lens and see what is different. Think of opportunities, not obstacles. 

Also, going to your mom’s house or a friend's birthday party is not about what the event is; it is about how that event might make the other person feel. So go and be the light and let the light shine. Be a good contagion. 

Life starts as you learn to step forward. You start to go to the monotonous stuff so that you can see what life could be.

Go to the dumb BBQ.